What being a lesbian means (from the Urban Dictionary)

Women who love other women, in the romantic sense, along with friendship. Lesbians are women who are devoted romantically, emotionally, and sexually to other women, not to men.

Lesbian (and being one) does not mean:

1) Rug muncher/carpet licker etc.
2) Being ugly.
3) Being desperate and not being able to get men.
4) A fifteen year old who thinks another girl is pretty.
5) Something that will make you popular if you claim to be it, you are who you are....
6) People with manly features.
7) A loser.
8) Someone to be descriminated.
9) Someone who is any different to hetrosexual person.
10) Someone who got drunk and kissed someone of the same sex.